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samani's avatar

This is very very touching. She was lucky to adopt you, and finally trust you enough to snuggle.

You became her rainbow 🌈

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FERN MCBRIDE (NYC)'s avatar

ROBYN HAS DEPARTED was one of my quietest readings in recent years. We were prepared for Robyn crossing Rainbow Bridge but not for the intimacy of Tom's routine as it happened. This was rare time to be with both Tom and Robyn. We spent minutes at the closest range and were left to embrace Tom for the tender love he gives.

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Jeanne Stevens's avatar

Your response Fern was so beautiful. I could really feel the love.

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FERN MCBRIDE (NYC)'s avatar

Thank you Jeanne. Tom just let go to be in the moment with Robyn, and he took us with him.

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Jeanne Stevens's avatar

Absolutely

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Ally House (Oregon)'s avatar

Holding them when they go is such a gift. We've had the opportunity to do that with two of our cats (both euthanized at home when it was time). Your description of Robyn as she "ran across the Bridge" was wonderful.

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Richard Johns's avatar

We did the same with our dog, Vinnie. Even the vet was bawling! ❤️

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Grover Zinn's avatar

She crossed the bridge wrapped in love Tom. Peace.

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J. P. Dwyer's avatar

TC, Knowing that you are a cat person has elevated my esteem for you. Caring for our feral friends raises the bar another notch. I too am a cat person. It is a sad time, and I’m sorry for the lost, but I’m happy about the care you provided to Robyn during her long life and that you stayed with her until the end.

This is a favorite quote of mine, “God made the cat to give man the pleasure of stroking a tiger. “ Francois-Joseph Mery

Have a good day.

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Gail Adams VA/FL's avatar

Hugs, Tom. ❤️❤️❤️ I lost my beloved Lab two weeks ago. I held him as he left. 🌈 I know the hole will close but it’s tough right now.

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Karen RN's avatar

I’m so sorry Gail. I lost my beloved husky, Natalie, several years ago. I held her as she left as well. The hole does get smaller with time but knowing that doesn’t diminish the heartbreak and grief we initially feel. Take care❤️

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Gail Adams VA/FL's avatar

❤️🙂

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Jeanne Stevens's avatar

I'm sorry to hear about your loss Gail. I know how hard it is to lose a family member.

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Mim Eisenberg (NYer now in GA)'s avatar

"Suddenly her legs started moving as if she was running, and her back arched.

That kept on for a long moment and then stopped at 6:01. I couldn’t feel a heartbeat or er breathing. She was gone. I think that motion was when her spirit ran across the bridge."

My tears well up as I envision that crossing, Tom. You gave Robyn some fine years and stroked and comforted her as she ran to Charlie. My heart goes out to you.

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Dave Conant - MO's avatar

It's always nice to have a friend see one off when a journey begins and to have another friend waiting at the other end is an unmitigated blessing. Robyn had both, and 16 years of loving care.

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Paul Donahue's avatar

When they know you are there it is easier for them. I did the same thing with my Boston terrier. As she laid by the fire and would start shaking, scared because she was deaf and couldn't walk, I would put my chin on her head and talk to her and she would calm down. We did this over and over until she passed. When they know you are there is is easier for them.

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Maggie's avatar

Sorry, but not I guess. It sounds like little Robyn lived and died according to her own terms - which is the best way for any of us. You gave her a really good life, Tom - even before she became "domesticated"! She will be missed.

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Ellen's avatar

There is a special gift one receives when a loved one reaches the bridge and you are there to say good-bye.

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Elizabeth M. (Massachusetts)'s avatar

I'm so sorry, TC. I'm glad you were with Robyn when she passed, and I'm glad she's with Charlie now. It brings tears to read of her final journey.

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Joan Friedman (MA, from NY)'s avatar

It's wrenching when a loved one crosses the Rainbow Bridge. I'm sorry for your loss.

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Lila McCall's avatar

It's never easy losing a loved four footed one. Gentle Hugs.

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Martha Dewing, NY's avatar

I am so touched by your sensitivity and love for the four- legged creatures you care for. A bow to you and all of them 🙇🏽‍♀️.

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Bongo-1, VT's avatar

So sad and also uplifting. RIP Robin.

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