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Bill Alstrom (MA/Maine/MA)'s avatar

"The life partner was chosen; and there were choices after that to affirm the choice in the face of difficulties and stick around. It makes the space that’s left behind different."

That one got me. It took me 50 years to find that kind of enduring partnership. I treasure it all the more, I guess. So glad you had what you had. Many (most?) don't.

Thank you for this portrait. What a journey. For her. For you. For the couple you will always be.

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FERN MCBRIDE (NYC)'s avatar

Thank you Tom for your description of Jūratė, her background, a sense of your life together and her love for the kitties, accompanied by a photo of the adorable Roscoe.

She was named well. The name Jūratė, ‘...is derived from the Lithuanian jūra meaning, “sea.” One of the most beautiful and romantic stories from Baltic legend has to be Jūratė and Kastytis. According to the legend, Jūratė was a beautiful marine goddess that lived beneath the Baltic sea in an amber palace. She was the queen of the fishes and ruled over all sea-life.’

Peace and beauty be with you, Jūratė.

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