So, the disagreement over how to treat Jurate between me and her older sister has been resolved. The doctors at Northridge Hospital were able to determine that the “crash” on Friday was an undiagnosed stroke. So they were able to explain to Big Sis that there is no “recovery” possible. The neurologist was able to explain the loss of mental ability due to the Parkinson’s and now exacerbated by the effects of the stroke.
Thankfully the DNR is operative again, and Jurate will be free from pain as she leaves this world the way she wants to. That is a blessing that you will appreciate even as your tears flow. Hugs to you.
This is so hard, this last piece of the journey. I am glad the three of you -- Jurate, sister and you -- are facing the same way. Far from you, those who enjoy your insights on politics and history also care about you, lover of cats and Jurate, on the most basic human level. Blessings on you all. Thank you for teaching us.
This. This I can like. Endings bring new beginnings. Your tears will bring relief. Cry it out and see it through, peace and hope lie ahead. Sending you the biggest hug I own.
I'm so relieved that Jurate's sister is listening, and will allow her to die in peace. Crying is also known our family as pumping toxins. Love to you and Jurate.
I'm so glad you and Jurate's sister are in agreement AND able to have actual conversations. That has to be such a relief from all that turmoil. Also to know that finally Jurate's own wishes are being heard and acted upon.
Somehow I never think the end will come. But, it does, and it’s always hard. I admire you so much for your loving care and thank you for putting into words how you feel about what’s happening to Jurate and you. Sending hugs and prayers to keep your tears company. Love.💔
Hold on to your memories and know that you have done everything possible to make sure that Jurate has the best possible care during this difficult time. Thank goodness you have learned how to cry. I couldn’t and now a year later I’m having meltdowns with family and friends over whatever perceived “injustice” because of delayed reaction. Tom, my thoughts are with you and I hope for you the strength you need over the next days.
I am so relieved for you and Jurate that her sister was able to understand and accept the neurologist’s prognosis. Tubes removed and comfort care provide a peaceful transition for all. I encourage letting the tears and the pain meds flow. My heart to you and Jurate❤️ Take care of yourself too Tom
A coming together for Jurate. Peace and gratitude to you both as well as to Jurate's neurologist
Thankfully the DNR is operative again, and Jurate will be free from pain as she leaves this world the way she wants to. That is a blessing that you will appreciate even as your tears flow. Hugs to you.
TC…your perseverance in loving and taking care of dear Jurate is unmatched. I am so very proud of you.
Holding you both in Light.
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I am so sorry. Crying is the best resource you have at this point. Don’t hold back.
This is so hard, this last piece of the journey. I am glad the three of you -- Jurate, sister and you -- are facing the same way. Far from you, those who enjoy your insights on politics and history also care about you, lover of cats and Jurate, on the most basic human level. Blessings on you all. Thank you for teaching us.
This. This I can like. Endings bring new beginnings. Your tears will bring relief. Cry it out and see it through, peace and hope lie ahead. Sending you the biggest hug I own.
Doing what is best is not always easy. You are doing the right thing, and you know that. Take care of you. Our thoughts are with you.
I'm so relieved that Jurate's sister is listening, and will allow her to die in peace. Crying is also known our family as pumping toxins. Love to you and Jurate.
May you find a bit of rest now, as you know Jurate’s wishes will be honored. I am proud of how you fought for her. She is too. I know it. ❤️
I'm so glad you and Jurate's sister are in agreement AND able to have actual conversations. That has to be such a relief from all that turmoil. Also to know that finally Jurate's own wishes are being heard and acted upon.
Somehow I never think the end will come. But, it does, and it’s always hard. I admire you so much for your loving care and thank you for putting into words how you feel about what’s happening to Jurate and you. Sending hugs and prayers to keep your tears company. Love.💔
Hold on to your memories and know that you have done everything possible to make sure that Jurate has the best possible care during this difficult time. Thank goodness you have learned how to cry. I couldn’t and now a year later I’m having meltdowns with family and friends over whatever perceived “injustice” because of delayed reaction. Tom, my thoughts are with you and I hope for you the strength you need over the next days.
You are not the only one crying. You have done well, and Jurate will rest well. Peace to you both.
I am so relieved for you and Jurate that her sister was able to understand and accept the neurologist’s prognosis. Tubes removed and comfort care provide a peaceful transition for all. I encourage letting the tears and the pain meds flow. My heart to you and Jurate❤️ Take care of yourself too Tom
Peace be with both you and Jurate. I ❤️ this with tears.
Gentle Hugs. Be good to yourself. Safe Journey for her.