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Pat Ebervein's avatar

Can’t hit the like button knowing that’s so close to you. PLEASE be safe and know we’re all thinking of you, Tom. May the road rise to meet you and the wind be at your back.

Gloria Horton-Young's avatar

My darling friend, there you are in LA, watching flames on the horizon like some apocalyptic sunset while packing cat food and your computer - which, by the way, is exactly what I would grab too because let's be honest, our lives are in these machines now, aren't they? Remember when people just grabbed photo albums? Now we're all clutching laptops like life rafts.

I did this dance 30 times in Montecito (yes, THIRTY - who says lightning doesn't strike the same place repeatedly? Fire certainly does). And every single time, I'd think "Well, surely THIS time I'll be calm and collected" - and then I'd find myself throwing random things in bags at 3 AM like someone who's never heard of organized packing. Though I must say, your Navy training is showing - wet food AND crunchies? That's what I call emergency preparedness.

Here's what I learned after evacuation #12 or maybe it was #22 (they all blur together): grab your favorite pajamas, pillow, and blanket RIGHT NOW. Actually, just put those pajamas on, wrap that blanket around your shoulders like a superhero cape, sit on the pillow, and let your cat nestle into your lap while you keep watch. Trust me on this - there's something oddly comforting about facing potential disaster in your coziest clothes. I used to parade through fancy hotel lobbies in my ancient, beloved bedroom slippers, holes and all. They became quite the conversation starter, but hey - it was my personal crisis party, and I refused to dress for anyone else's comfort but my own.

I love that you're making fresh coffee and keeping watch like some modern-day Paul Revere ("The fire is coming! The fire is coming!"). And yes, it's perfectly fine to feel that flood of relief when the danger shifts away from you, followed by that immediate Catholic-level guilt (even for an atheist) when you realize it's heading toward Brentwood. That's just being human. Speaking of which, your line about "this atheist thanks you" for the prayers made me laugh out loud - crisis really does make ecumenicals of us all.

Stay safe, keep those updates coming, and remember - it's okay to be scared. Even with all that military training, you're still allowed to be human. Though I must say, you're handling this with far more grace than I ever did. I usually ended up stress-eating all my emergency snacks before any actual emergency happened.

Sending love and hopes for gentle winds in the right direction. And maybe grab an extra bag of those cat crunchies, just in case - we both know cats pick the worst times to get picky about their food. Now go put those pajamas on - consider it a direct order from a veteran fire evacuee.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

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