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David Holzman's avatar

I was aware of reverse sexism growing up because my mother and my maternal aunt had PhDs. I don't remember when I learned that my maternal grandmother had had one--much later probably because she died long before I was born (her story is a sad one). But she was probably the first female Coloradan to earn that degree (1915, labor relations).

My maternal aunt, Rose Dobrof, along with Bob Butler, pushed for unmarried residents of old folks home to be left alone when having sex with each other. My cousin Joan writes, "Mom and Bob Butler did lead the fight for acceptance of sexual expression in old age. It was in the late 1970's. Bob wrote a helpful and important book about the topic. Bob was the first and founding Director of National Institute on Aging. He died about 2 years before Mom. They were radicals about aging back in the day."

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Ally House (Oregon)'s avatar

Thanks for this post TC. You describe the Curse of the Competent very well. I wish the incompetent folks had half the self-awareness.

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